Illinois couples who marry are likely the same as many others who enter their unions hoping and believing their commitments will last their lifetimes. Statistics show this is not always possible, however. Readers concerned about divorce may want to consider several red flag issues that may suggest marital trouble is brewing.
Good communication is said to be a stronghold in many lasting marriages. Consequently, a breakdown in this area can prove disastrous. Many advisers say it is never healthy for a marriage when couples avoid issues or refuse to discuss problems because, more often than not, it leads to resentment and distances between them.
When a person files for divorce, it is usually after a longer period of time where hurt feelings from unresolved issues have compiled. In fact, some say ducking difficult issues and problems in marriage is a form of procrastination similar to hitting the snooze button on an alarm clock. The same way a sleepy person is avoiding waking up, a spouse may be avoiding meeting marital problems head-on. Although at first glance it may seem that avoiding an issue will make it fade away in time, the reality appears to be that few problems are resolved this way.
If a spouse determines divorce is the only viable option left for resolving marital differences, it may be a good idea to consult with an Illinois attorney before taking any formal action in court. Especially in situations where communication between spouses is poor, acting alongside skilled representation may help prevent contentious arguments and emotional outbursts when negotiating a settlement. Also, if there are children involved, it helps to have the assistance of an experienced attorney to protect their best interests in matters related to custody, visitation and support.
Source: christiantoday.com, “Avoiding Divorce: The Marriage Problems You Need to Address Early on“, Patrick Mabilog, Dec. 15, 2016
