Adapting to a new parenting plan after divorce can be quite challenging for former spouses in Illinois and elsewhere. With a new holiday season approaching, many parents might be worried that confusion or discord will arise regarding visitation schedules. To prevent such problems, some people have special holiday instructions included in their court orders.
Others simply “wing it,” which can be fine if those involved are able to cooperate and compromise when flexibility is called for or a sudden change of plan is needed. However, if a serious communication breakdown exists, this type of peaceful teamwork during the holidays may not be possible. If a parent is struggling because the other parent refuses to adhere to a set plan, or is acting in outright defiance to a court order, it may be best to seek assistance from a legal advocate rather than try to resolve the issue on one’s own.
Many parents call truces during the holidays; in fact, some choose to spend special days together for the sake of their children. This is not an option for everyone, and there is no shame in seeking support when problematic situations get out of hand. An experienced attorney can help negotiate, when possible, and obtain positive solutions to difficult problems.
If you are worried about visitation during the holidays because of unresolved issues between you and your former spouse, you may call McCarthy & Allen in Illinois to arrange a meeting. Discussing a particular situation with someone who has your best interests at heart is often the first step toward achieving an amicable and agreeable outcome. By acting alongside effective guidance, you can focus on enjoying the holidays and building new, happy memories with your family while we address other issues on your behalf.